Dr. William Glasser offers a new psychology that, if applied, could invert our widespread incapability to get along with one another, an inability this is the source of almost all unhappiness.

For progress in human associations, he explains that people must give up the punishing, relationship-destroying external control psychology. For instance, if you’re in an unsatisfied relationship at this time, he proposes that one or both of you could be using exterior control psychology over the various other. He goes further. And suggests that misery is always related to a present unsatisfying relationship. Unlike what you may believe, your troubles are always right now, never before. No one can change what happened yesterday.