Brazen, uproarious, slyly prescriptive, and generally entertaining, Ali Adler is a sex and relationship guru who knows what women want. As a gay woman, she’s both the tools and the experience to give directly men (and the women who love them) information on both how to get more sex and how to get this job performed right.

In her day job as a TV writer and producer, Ali is sometimes the only woman inside a roomful of comedy writers. She became renowned for offering frank, sometimes insightful, frequently bossy reality inspections as well as for translating feminine sexuality into terms a guy could understand.

In her book, How exactly to F*ck a Woman-20 percent explicit instructions, 80 percent relationship advice, and 100 percent hilarious-she includes essential advice for men (even the ones who insist they could write this book) and the ladies who want their lovers to understand them, both mind and body.