It should come as understandable that we seem unconfident when we are constantly using someone else’s video game. When we’re so worried about what others believe and with ‘keeping up with the Joneses’. When we’re doing a job that people don’t care about or feel that we’re especially good at.

However when we step to one side and get out of the rat race. When we define who we want to become and concentrate on that without fretting about what other people think. When we encounter success and improvement and triumph in our own lives. All this helps us to gradually become more successful and at exactly the same time to forget about all the chatter.

Better yet, when you focus on things you value, you stand out. You become even more participating and charismatic and passionate and this resonates with other folks. Because after all, enthusiasm is a lot more contagious than low self-confidence and it certainly trumps it to a large degree.

Discover your passion, find what matters for you, and concentrate on yourself. Allow others compete and worry and focus on doing what you need to be happy.